You’re just reminding them of the mistakes they made back then. If you watch their facial expression carefully, then you’ll see the hurt in their eyes as they reminisce everything that happened. Never use emotion as a weapon, it strikes deeper than you can imagine.
29838.) I love the face you make when you're mad at me. I love that you love your dog. I love that you actually try to talk to me. I love that we laugh at the same things. I love that we have all the same favorites. I love that you look me in the eye. I love the fun flirting. I love how you tickle me. I love how our hands just seem to fit together. I love that you know me so well. I love that you're willing to risk getting in trouble for me. I love that you don't pressure me to do anything. I love the way you hold me. I love how you give me your jacket. I love that your parents like me. I love that you're such a nerd. I love that you make me food. I love kissing you. I love that you're my best friend. I just love you.
Devote your heart to one person and then suddenly blow them off without even trying in the relationship? Flirt openly with other people and ignore the one person who really cares about you?
Congratulations, you are an asshole.
What - it really brings you satisfaction to leave behind people just so you can have your “fun”? That’s certainly the impression I’m getting. You probably have zero consideration for others’ feelings and the fact that you’re moving on like a fly really does show that. You give them sincere and believing excuses just to get that little bit of “guilt” off your chest and then you get back to whatever you’re doing. Perhaps you should hold off a bit and listened to your own damned reasons. It might do you some good. Blame it on immaturity and age, but that is absolutely no excuse to treat other people like that.
Dealing with people is not like another assignment you have to finish last minute. A relationship is much more than novelty status that you can just wear. It’s not like doing homework for a certain subject and then moving on; that is definitely not how it works. Do you realise that people other than yourself have feelings? Are you aware that you’re hurting them in the process of having your “fun”? Do you even use your brain to think about things like that? No?
Well, you should start.
Playing people is nothing that holds pride. From there, reputations build and it might turn around in the future. Perhaps one day you may realise the pain you have been causing and stop. I’m not going to stop you because I think you should learn it the hard way.
“I used to be such a burning example, I used to be so original. I used to care, I was being cared for / made sure I showed it to those that I love. I used to sleep without a single stir / ‘cause I was about my father’s work.”